Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Don't wish your life away...

Recently I have come to recognize how all of us, at some time or another, engage in wishing our life away.  If you've ever said to yourself, "I just wish this day was over," then you too are guilty of wishing your life a way.

Sometimes when things are particularly awful in our lives, we wish away whole weeks, months, or even years - "I just wish the holidays would get here."

The impulse to get past difficulty, pain and sorrow is understandable. We all have it. But when we focus on just "getting past" stuff, we may be losing out on the ordinary and even wonderful moments that come in the midst of trouble.

What is even more pernicious, however, is the wishing away of perfectly good ordinary days when we are too focused on achieving some future goal. If all our energy is tied up with thinking about what we'll do when  "I lose 30 more pounds," or "finish my degree," or "get that promotion," then we are not really appreciating the moment in which we are currently located.


Maggie May said...

Yes, we are all guilty of it some time or other.
Trouble is....... its a dangerous game as we don't know how much time we have left in the first place..
Maggie X

Nuts in May

Anemone said...

Wonderful post. Just what I needed to read today. Thank you!

Geraldine said...

Oh so true. I'm glad I read this today, it really hit home.

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Hugs, G